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Monday, March 26, 2012

Relationships Love Language ~ Long Distance Love ~ I know you may be thinking, "How can I speak the language of Physical Touch when we are half a world away?" It's not that difficult…. ~ Christ’s Entry into Jerusalem by Hippolyte Flandrin 1842

Christs Entry into Jerusalem by Hippolyte Flandrin 1842

Christ’s Entry into Jerusalem by Hippolyte Flandrin 1842





Palm Sunday JESUS Triumphal Entry

 

7 They brought the donkey and the colt and put on them their cloaks, and he sat on them. 8 Most of the crowd spread their cloaks on the road, and others cut branches from the trees and spread them on the road. 9 And the crowds that went before him and that followed him were shouting, "Hosanna to the Son of David! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord! Hosanna in the highest!" 10 And when he entered Jerusalem, the whole city was stirred up, saying, "Who is this?" 11 And the crowds said, "This is the prophet Jesus, from Nazareth of Galilee." http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+21&version=ESV.


Enters Jerusalem on a Donkey Matthew 21:1-11 ESV
Mark 11:1-11, Luke 19:28-40, John 12:12-19 ESV.



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Relationships Love Language ~ Long Distance Love ~ I know you may be thinking, "How can I speak the language of Physical Touch when we are half a world away?" It's not that difficult….






Long Distance Love

Dr. Gary Chapman

 

[A-Perfect-Pet-for-Peyton-A-5-Love-La%255B4%255D.png]Question:

"How can one deal with a long distance relationship when the spouse's love language is Physical Touch? I am desperate and don't want this to end because of the distance."

Answer:

I am often asked this question when I speak to military couples. The good news is that all of the love languages can be spoken long distance. I know you may be thinking, "How can I speak the language of Physical Touch when we are half a world away?" It's not that difficult.

In a letter, phone call, or e-mail you say, "If I were with you, I would put my arms around you and give you a kiss you would never forget."

No, it is not the same as actually doing it. However, it communicates love emotionally. They know that you are thinking about them and their love language. One wife said recently, "Learning to speak my husband's love language long distance has made a world of difference. And, he is speaking my language. He writes, "If I were at home, I'd vacuum the floor and take out the trash without your asking. Wow! That speaks to me." So my advice? Try it. I think you'll like it.

 

A Perfect Pet for Peyton:
A 5 Love Languages Discovery Book

 

 

 

The Five Love Languages Profile will give you a thorough analysis of your emotional communication preference. It will single out your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect with your loved one with intimacy and fulfillment.

 

There are five love languages:

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Gifts
3. Acts of Service
4. Quality Time
5. Physical Touch

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Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Relationships Love Language ~ Little Love Tanks ~ ‘Without love, a child will starve emotionally and can become impaired for life…Learning what fills your child's little love tank is one of the secrets to successful parenting.’

 

Cherry Blossom with Butterfly

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Relationships Love Language ~ Little Love Tanks ~ ‘Without love, a child will starve emotionally and can become impaired for life…Learning what fills your child's little love tank is one of the secrets to successful parenting.’

 

 

Little Love Tanks

Dr. Gary Chapman

 

[A-Perfect-Pet-for-Peyton-A-5-Love-La%255B4%255D.png]During infancy, a child does not distinguish between milk and tenderness, between solid food and love. Without food a child will starve. Without love, a child will starve emotionally and can become impaired for life. A great deal of research indicates that the emotional foundation of life is laid in the first eighteen months of life, particularly in the mother/child relationship.

The 'food' for future emotional health is love expressed in five ways: physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service. Speak all five languages to your child the first eighteen months and you are laying the best possible foundation for emotional health.

Do you know your child's primary love language? What I discovered years ago is that what makes one child feel loved, does not necessarily make another child feel loved. If you treat all children the same way in an effort to be fair, you are really not being fair at all.

I like to picture each child as having an emotional 'love tank'. If the tank is full, that is the child feels loved by the parents, then the child grows up normally. If the tank is empty, the child will grow up with many internal struggles. And, in the teenage years will go looking for love, typically in all the wrong places. Learning what fills your child's little love tank is one of the secrets to successful parenting.

 

A Perfect Pet for Peyton:
A 5 Love Languages Discovery Book

 

 

 

The Five Love Languages Profile will give you a thorough analysis of your emotional communication preference. It will single out your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect with your loved one with intimacy and fulfillment.

 
 

There are five love languages:

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Gifts
3. Acts of Service
4. Quality Time
5. Physical Touch

Love Languages Personal Profile @ http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/personal-profiles/?profiletype=wives


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Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Relationships Love Language ~ Children Like Gifts. Some Love Them! ~ The Love Language of Gifts ~ Gifts are Universal ~ Gifts must be PRESENTed ~ A Perfect Pet for Peyton: A 5 Love Languages Discovery Book

Palm Fronds with Sun behind real life

 

 

 

A Perfect Pet for Peyton A 5 Love Languages Discovery Book by Dr. Gary Chapman and Rick Osborne

A Perfect Pet for Peyton

A 5 Love Languages Discovery Book

 


Relationships Love Language ~ Children Like Gifts. Some Love Them! ~ The Love Language of Gifts ~ Gifts are Universal ~ Gifts must be PRESENTed ~ A Perfect Pet for Peyton: A 5 Love Languages Discovery Book 

 

 

Children Like Gifts. Some Love Them!

Dr. Gary Chapman

 

A Perfect Pet for Peyton A 5 Love Languages Discovery Book by Dr. Gary Chapman and Rick OsborneDoes your child feel loved? All of the research indicates that children who are loved fare better in life than those who do not. Most parents love their children, but not all children feel loved. When Dr. Ross Campbell and I wrote the book The 5 Love Languages of Children, we discovered that children have different love languages.

What fills the love tank of one child will not necessarily fill the love tank of another. One child may crave physical touch - hugs and kisses, while another longs for words of affirmation. For some children it's quality time, for others it is gifts or acts of service. Discover your child's love language, speak it fluently, and you will keep the love tank full.

The Love Language of Gifts

One of the love languages of children is receiving gifts. I know what you're thinking: "That is the love languages of all children." But, not really. Some children will ooh and aah and jump up and down with excitement when they are about to open a present. Once it is opened, they will repeat the performance. Others will simply open the gift, look at it, perhaps say thanks, and then they are off to other events.

Why the difference? For one child receiving gifts is their primary love language while the other much prefers quality time or one of the other love languages. Don't expect all children to respond the same way. If you want to love effectively you must learn the primary love language of each child and speak it regularly.

Gifts are Universal

Giving and receiving gifts is a universal way of expressing love. The English word 'gift' come from the Greek word 'charis', which means "grace, or an undeserved gift." Gifts are given simply out of love. When a parent offers a gift if the child will clean his room, this is not a true gift, but rather, payment for services rendered.

For a gift to be an expression of love, it must be freely given, not as payment for something the child has done. I'm not opposed to paying a child for working, but let's not call it a gift. God's gift of salvation does not come because of our work, but because of His grace. As parents we must distinguish between 'gifts' and 'payments'.

Gifts must be PRESENTed

Parents don't always get emotional credit for the gifts they give because they do not present them as gifts. For example, when you buy school supplies or clothes how do you present them to the child? Most children respond positively to gifts, but for some, receiving gifts is their primary love language. They will want the gift to be wrapped or given in a unique and creative way. They will look at the paper, maybe talk about the bow. This is all part of the love expression. It will seem like a 'big deal' to them - and it is.

In so doing you demonstrate that every gift, whether a necessity or a luxury, is an expression of your love. Such celebration of gifts will also teach your children how to respond to others who give them gifts. You express love in giving and they express thanks in receiving. The whole process is a reflection of God's love for us expressed in His many gifts.

Remember, for them, this is love's loudest expression. They see the gift as an extension of you and your love. Once they have opened the gift, they will hug you or thank you profusely. They will make a special place in their room for the gift and share it with their friends. Seeing the gift reminds them that they are loved. It doesn't matter if the gift was made, found, or purchased. What matters is that you thought about them.

 

Cherry Blossoms, Mt. Yoshino, JapanCherry Blossoms  Waimea, Hawaii

                          Cherry Blossoms, Mt. Yoshino, Japan                                                                       Cherry Blossoms  Waimea, Hawaii

 

 

 

The Five Love Languages Profile will give you a thorough analysis of your emotional communication preference. It will single out your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect with your loved one with intimacy and fulfillment.

There are five love languages:

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Gifts
3. Acts of Service
4. Quality Time
5. Physical Touch

Love Languages Personal Profile @ http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/personal-profiles/?profiletype=wives


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Relationships Love Language ~ JESUS Enters Jerusalem ~ Holy Week ~ Jesus Washes the Disciples’ Feet

Relationships Love Language ~ JESUS Enters Jerusalem ~ Holy Week ~ Jesus Washes the Disciples’ Feet
Jesus Washes the Disciples’ Feet ~ Last Supper. The Passover with the Disciples. Institution of the Lord’s Supper. Judas to Betray Jesus. Matthew 26, Mark 14, Luke 22 ESV. Jesus Washes the Disciples’ Feet. ....12 When he had washed their feet and put on his outer garments and resumed his place, he said to them, "Do you understand what I have done to you? 13 You call me Teacher and Lord, and you are right, for so I am. 14 If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. 15 For I have given you an example, that you also should do just as I have done to you....John 13:1-20 ESV.Christ Reasoning with Peter, by Giotto di Bondone (Cappella Scrovegni a Padova).

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